I will be considered high risk, I will see a high risk OB, I will have more ultrasounds and monitoring, there is nothing I can do to prevent this happening to us again, I don't need to take anything extra besides my prenatal vitamins, I can have the baby delivered 37-38 weeks, depending on how things are going.. with a possibility of as early as 36 weeks.. depending on my mental state and the health of the baby.  They can do amnio to check lung developemnt.  She said that most docs won't do the amnio for a 38 week delivery, but for a 36 week they always do... I'd rather not deliver at 36 weeks, (actually I'd probably WAY rather deliver that early - but  I know that normally the best place for a baby is INSIDE momma!), they will give the baby non stress tests weekly after 32 weeks..  I think that's it.  Oh, and lastly, they took 8 vials of blood from me and are running a full panel on disorders.  The doctor said that she didn't feel like I had any blood clotting disorders, and she wasn't even going to do the blood work, but her coleague suggested that it still be done, since we have no cause of death.   Anyway, she said that usually when a baby is born to a mother with the blood clotting disorders, the babes are usually small (Dresden was a big ole 8lb 1oz) and the placentas are small too.. mine was normal size. 

SO!  that was the day.. I didn't pick Gwen up from my mom's until after 5pm!  I really never thought this appt would consume the WHOLE DAY!